This upcoming Saturday marks the beginning of another year that the world will be graced with the life of an extraordinary woman. On March 10, 1956, the most wonderful lady in the world was born - my mother. It’s an honor to be called her daughter and even more of a privilege to call her a friend. Anyone that knows “Debbie-do” will agree with me when I say that the atmosphere changes when she enters a room. Her joy and bubbly personality brings light to the darkness.
Now, when I say that my mom is wonderful, I do not say it lightly. There is reason after reason justifying why she is simply magnificent. Thus, a list seems the most appropriate in my recognition of her.
- She has literally NEVER met a stranger. You can count on my mom to befriend anyone and everyone.
One of my favorite memories of her is when the two of us were on a vacation together in New York City. To start the day off she said, “I’m going to see how many people I can make smile today.” (She has made this statement on numerous occasions, I think it's game she likes to play out in public). We made our way to the subway to venture on to who knows where, and took our seats. Anyone who has ever been to NYC or much less on an NYC subway, culturally, you pretty much mind your “P’s and Q’s” and keep to yourself- not today, Debbie was on board. The next thing I know, our of side of the subway car was smiling, laughing, chit-chatting, and carrying on (highly uncharacteristic of a subway ride). All they needed was a little DFair to spice up their day.
- It’s rare to find people in this world that you can pour your heart out to, unfiltered, unashamed. My mother is that person. I have yet to meet another individual who will just take you as you are the way my mom does. People go to her and open up because they know they will not be judged, they will simply be accepted, loved and listened to. If you have ever had any other mindset other than the one I just expressed, you should probably step back and check yourself, for you have an inaccurate view of my mother's heart and intension. I’m convinced that if I have told my mom, then I have no secrets. If I can’t tell her, then “Houston, we have a problem”.
- My mom gave a Christmas gift to the mail man. Enough said. When I asked her “Why?” she replied, “well he does a lot for me.” Did you give your mail man a Christmas gift this year? I didn’t think so.
- This moves me on to my next point - how incredibly generous and kind she is. This is a characteristic that both of my parents portray so well, but especially my mom. She doesn’t think twice about it and it is second nature to give. She always goes above and beyond herself. Mom, make sure you put yourself first every now and then, ok? :)
- My mother is absolutely beautiful. Inside and out. I’ve heard it said that a man should look at a girl’s mother to see what she is going to look like in 30 years. All I’ve got to say is “DANGGGGG- I’m going to be HOTT” so boys, get in line and take a number.
- She’s pretty feisty and quite scrappy. I’d put my money on her in a fight. She would probably win if it didn’t result in laughing by the end of the battle. The woman can definitely hold her own.
- Speaking of laughing, she makes herself laugh.... A lot.
- One of my favorite “Debbie-isms” is that she NEVER knows the words to ANY song. It’s adorable really, because she likes to sing along to all of them. (Hey Mom, there is an app for that now.)
- My mom is like the energizer bunny- she keeps going, and going, and going. She can get more done in a day than most people get done in a week. No Joke. And, she can pretty much do anything. Incredible talented.
- Plants - I kill everything I plant and she can grown anything. Still waiting on my green thumb. I thought it would come with maturity but I have yet to see it manifest (thus, my need for a cabana boy- as that seems to be the appropriate solution to everything in my mind). She also knows the names of the plants. I bet if someone wrote a song about plant names, she might be able to sing along to that one ;)
- My mother, without a doubt is the strongest woman I have EVER met. So brave, so courageous, so compassionate - she could conquer the world.
- Debbie-licisous is seriously one of the funnest people I know. She is always a blast and other than Kellie Sharp, I could probably get in the most trouble with her if opportunity presented itself. Life of the party for sure.
- Not only is my mother the best mom ever, she is absolutely the best wife. I look at all that she does and how she loves my dad so well and I am amazed. I think she should win an academy award for that role .
This list could go on and on, as there are so many fabulous attributes when it comes to my mother. She is selfless and more times than not is the one that ‘takes it for the team’. What an inspiration she is to all she encounters.My life has been so blessed by her unconditional love and never ending support of who I am and all of my dreams. My hope and prayer is that she fully knows and understands how much she is loved and valued. You should all probably be jealous that she is not your mom, but I am sure if you want her to be, just ask and she will warmly greet you with open arms.
What a compliment it is when someone tells me I look like her. I also find that the more I age, the more I recognize little mannerisms that I do where in the moment I laugh and say “Oh, Crap- I just looked exactly like my mother”, but in reality, I enjoy the fact that the “Debbie” in me comes out.
The Lord knew what He was doing when He gave me the gift of my mother. She truly is a gift. The amount of love I have for her could never be expressed no matter how articulate or intricate the wording. She breaks the mold. If you don’t know her, you should for she will surely change your life. If you do know her, cherish and relish every moment you get to share with her because you will never be the same. Also, make sure to celebrate her since I can't be in Texas to do so myself.
Mom, Happy Birthday Week! May this be the best year yet, full of laughter, memories, and dreams come true. Thank you for always being there for me and for the countless sacrifices you have made. I love you, and I will never put you in a nursing home (haha), but really, only a chateau will do for you. I pray that you are personally blessed as much you bless those around you! You are highly appreciated! I LOVE YOU!!
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